I think I got it from her
My mother Tina Bonifacio is a gracious woman.
Earlier in the week she sent me a message on facebook (at 80 she stays current) and asked if I was available for a small of gathering of former employees of a company we owned back more than 30 years ago. The company has long been sold but my mother keeps in touch with former employees. She's truly a kind soul.
With a loaded week and the need to prepare a message for tomorrow's service and pack for an upcoming trip to Africa, I was certain I just couldn't make it to her small reunion. Fortunately I had a little window this afternoon (plus the prodding of another kind soul, my wife) and I was able to make the drive to my mother's reunion.
And there I found about fifteen of the more than 200 former employees that she keeps tabs with through the years. It's amazing how much fun you can get for such a small inconvenience. It was pleasant break from the hurried week and wonderful surprise to see the friendly faces of people I once interfaced with.
The picture below was taken during her 80th birthday celebrations last November.
To be honest I am nowhere near my mother's ability to be loving and kind. What she did show me is how valuable and important people are, whoever they may be. To this day she still dines and spends time with friends she's had more than 50 years ago. Thanks Mom for showing me from the very beginning, that it is all about relationships. The kingdom of God needs more mothers like you.
"Greet Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother, who has been a mother to me, too. Romans 16:13
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