Why do I have to suffer Lord?
The often asked question is "Why do I have to suffer anyway?" The reality is given the prevalence of sin we most likely will all experience some measure of suffering in our lives. This reality forces us to ask the right question, "How can I accept and somehow rejoice in my suffering, specially when I find the reason for it to be senseless?"
Tim Keller answers this in page 209 of the KIng's Cross:
"It may seem senseless to as Jesus' suffering seemed to his disciples. But the cross tells you what the reason isn't. It can't be that God doesn't love you. It can't be that he has no plan for you. It can't be that he has abandoned you. Jesus was abandoned, and paid for our sins, so that God the Father would never abandon you. The cross proves that he loves you and understands what it means to suffer. It also demonstrates that God can be working in your life even when it seems like there is no rhyme or reason to what is happening."
While I don't believe that God is the author of suffering I agree with C.S. Lewis when he wrote : "God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pain; it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world." - that God uses pain and suffering to communicate with us. In some ways it is also His way of giving us an opportunity to have a relationship with Him.
"For it is commendable if someone bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because they are conscious of God." 1Peter 2:19
My Comments Policy
While my site offers visitors the ability to converse, I have a few ground rules so that our conversations will remain civil and courteous.
1. You must register in order to leave a comment. I don’t entertain pseudo, anonymous or bogus individuals. This site is my home (it has a Home Page, get it). I don’t let strangers who don’t introduce themselves into my home.
2. I love questions. I love them because a lot of times they are similar to someone else’s questions and can even trigger other questions from others. Questions also keep us all sharp. This is also why I respond to them as best as I can and at the soonest possible time. I believe that group answering benefits more people than private email exchanges.
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In short, my goal is to host interesting conversations with caring, honest, and respectful people. I believe this clear and simple comments policy will facilitate this.
