Posted: May 6th, 2013 | Blog | Comments (1)

A good reminder to pastors and Christians

If you’ve been tracking with my posts you know that I have just returned from speaking at a conference in Australia. I understand the significance of conferences and their service to the Body of Christ, but as a pastor it is very easy to get caught up with the hoopla and adrenaline that big gatherings bring.



It is also very easy to get by with lowered standards because conferences particularly large ones keep people at a distance. By that I mean people don’t get to see you up close. In a local church regular interface with members and staff reveal the good, bad and uglies about you.

That’s why I am writing this post, to remind myself of the noble call of God on my life and  the high standards that come with it.  Paul in his letter to Timothy writes.

Here is a trustworthy saying: Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task.” 1Timothy 3:1

The following are the specifics for those who aspire to be a church pastor or Christian leader. Here they are:

Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,…” 1Timothy 3:2

Faithful. Disciplined. Respectable. Generous and kind. Can teach. Interesting that most of these have little to do with teaching but are the character qualities that give us the platform to teach.

not given to drunkenness,… 1Timothy 3:3a

These days this does not just mean alcohol but includes substance abuse. I consider over-eating part of this. Some foods are addictive (i.e. sugar, I’m sure you can think of others). To be clear I am not saying leaders can’t take any wine, sugar, ice cream or sodas – but that they are not prone to over intake or substance abuse.

“…not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.” 1Timothy 3;3b

Gets along with people well. NOT A LOVER OF MONEY – simply put money generation is not his prime motivation in life.

He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full respect.” 1Timothy 3:4

Has a good relationship with his children. Leads a family that believes, follows and respects him.

If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?” 1Timothy 3:5

I can almost hear Steve Murrell say, “let’s agree to build a church movement where we will never sacrifice our families on the altar of ministry.” Thank God for Steve’s early directives.

He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil.” 1Timothy 3:6

Not a newbie in the things of God. I don’t think that this standard is simply about years in ministry but also includes an ability to get deeper in his spiritual life and get better in his role as a leader. However, even as he progresses he must remain humble. One way to see that is to ask if he is accountable to others and who are the people who oversee him.

He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil’s trap.” 1Timothy 3:7

While we know that no one is perfect and there will always be something that we can all be accused of specially in this day of technology and empowered social networks, there should be an overwhelming agreement in the leader’s good reputation particularly by community leaders.

Father thank You for the reminder that we have been called to a noble call. Thank You that it is not by might nor by power, by our human gifting and abilities but simply by Your grace that we can rise to standards to which You have called us.

I believe that if pastors and leaders keep the standard we can build churches that make disciples and change the world!

Ps. Picture above show my pastor friends from Guam, Cliff Shoemake (right) and Roy Burk (left) – the bottle Roy is holding is ginger beer (they are non-alcoholic). Delicious.

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  1. I was wondering If a mothers and/or father’s abuse of drugs and/or alcohol throughout their lifetimes can effect the health of their children? (Keeping in mind that the mother would not smoke, drink, or use drugs throughout the actual pregnancy) Will the parent’s substance abuse induce psychology and emotional problems such as ADHD, depression, Bipolar disorder ect in their children. Will substance abuse effect the quality of the genetic makeup carried in the sperm and eggs somehow? Advice as well as links and statistics would be useful. Thanks.

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